A qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) is a legal document, filed with the court, that instructs the Plan Administrator of a Defined Benefit plan how benefits are to be divided between separating or divorcing parties.
The person to whom the participant's interest is transferred is called the "alternate payee." Generally, the alternate payee is the participant's divorcing spouse (including a same-sex spouse), but it could also be a child or other family member to which a court order ...